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Now a day’s most common problem in wedded couple’s life is to find having a good and healthy sex life. The reasons could be many, but the prime cause seems a baby that generally takes the spice of passionate sex life.
In this case the fathers normally feel much neglected which results in frustration and turns to bad marriage. Why do new mothers so often lose their sex drive? The reason is weakness after pregnancy and also that they should not have another baby too close. Mother’s must take care of all this, but it does not mean that they should ruin their sex lives.
Giving birth leaves many women pretty raw and irritated. Trying to make love too soon, perhaps to please your partner, can both cause some pain in itself, and make you more tense next time. Females should take care and use lubricants like petroleum jellies before making love. This can help ease discomfort but are no substitute for loving foreplay and really feeling aroused.
You and your partner can always find ways other than intercourse to give one another enjoyment that avoid any tender spot until it improve. Hormonal changes after childbirth may be responsible for short-lived baby blues, and can also play a part in causing longer-lasting depression, very often associated with loss of interest in sex.
The hormonal balance should right itself quite quickly but, if you are suffering from depression and loss of sex drive at the time of your six-week post-natal check, tell the doctor that too.
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